I started strength training for the first time in January 2024, in my late 30s. I wish I’d started earlier, but it’s been a hugely positive change in my life. Some observations:
- Standing up straight is a lot easier; back muscles help with posture!
- Stability is cool. I’m noticeably better at tightening my core in daily life, balancing, etc.
- I can put much more power into specific movements (ex: pedal hard on a bike) before feeling exerted or losing control
- I can lift my gangly 85lb dog easily without worrying that I’ll mess up my back
- RSI pain in my arms + wrists is nearly gone
I’ve been going to the same gym 3x/week on average. They have a pretty good model where:
- They connect you with a specific personal trainer
- Before starting classes you do X training sessions, to make sure you have decent form and won’t injure yourself
- After starting classes you do a training session every other month or so
- The relationship with the trainer is a form of accountability; they notice if you miss classes for a couple weeks
The classes are Crossfit-ish; about 2/3 strength, 1/3 cardio. They’re surprisingly fun now that I know what I’m doing.
Why now?
Sometime in 2023 I saw people I respect in a professional context (Jack Rusher, Andreas Kling) talking about how it’s increasingly hard to build muscle as you grow older, and thought “hmm, concerning.”
Later I started thinking about New Year’s resolutions etc. (as one does), and reached out to a local gym on a whim.
Why didn’t I start earlier?
I’d never enjoyed lifting weights before, and I didn’t know how to do it safely. To be honest, I associated weight lifting with jock culture and looked down on it a bit. I’ve gone through on-and-off phases of going to the gym, but it’s always been individual cardio work. I didn’t enjoy team sports as a kid, and I’ve always been someone who prefers to figure things out on their own. That approach has served me well in some areas, but it wasn’t working for fitness.
Parting Advice
If you haven’t been able to commit to a fitness routine, try trading some money for training and a community of like-minded people. Expert advice is useful and social accountability works!